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تعبير عن الام والاب بالانجليزي

تعبير عن الام والاب بالانجليزي





تعبير عن الام والاب بالانجليزي

Why becoming a mother has been the best decision of my life
I am capable of everything
It's been three years since I was a mother, and thanks to that I'm stronger than before. For my daughters, I am capable of everything. Before, I crashed very easily in front of everyone, but now I am able to say no, to say when I do not agree, to affirm my positions. And that, in front of strangers as in front of my companion.
Why having two children gives me these abilities? Because I want my daughters to be able to do the same thing later, so I have no choice but to give them an example. Although it is not always easy, I still have to fight against my syndrome, I realize that I like to assert myself and that I do it better and better.
A huge love
The love I give and receive as a parent is second to none. It's really exhilarating to realize the unconditional love I'm giving (for now) to my daughters. I am well aware that this may evolve when they are adults, but for now I find incredible the joy that my children give me. And the look my baby gives me when I feed her, when I play with her tells me it's mutual.
I am a little ashamed to admit it but I love the love of my children and I like them to be indispensable. While I never felt this in a romantic relationship, on the contrary, I fled situations where I found myself the nurse or mother of the other, or another relationship where I was put on a pedestal .
Being indispensable for a man has always made me run away but being indispensable to my children pleases me. (But rest assured, I advocate maximum autonomy for children and love to hear my daughter say "No, all alone!")
Get to know each other better and learn to accept each other
Which brings me to something else: becoming a mother has allowed me to know myself better and to accept myself. Like many parents, I strive to do my best to educate and especially to live with my daughters. And this regularly forces me to face my own contradictions, anxieties, fears, lies. I do not solve them, but I make them aware, accept them and allow me to be more lenient with myself (on this point I must admit that the dialogue with Mister helps me a lot).
And somewhere, I think it also opened my eyes to my own parents. This helped me to better accept their weaknesses, their difficulties but also to be aware of the energy deployed by my mother to educate two teenagers alone. Becoming a mother allowed me to get closer to my parents.
I learned to love myself
Being a parent is not easy, that's for sure. The nights are choppy, the days are grueling, and the quiet times are too short. It forced me to take time for myself and to appreciate it, to realize that it was good to take care of me too, that I deserved it. I always practiced a "leisure" activity: dance, theater or clown, according to my places of residence. I always liked that. Now, it's vital. I realized that this is part of me, that there are many things that I could leave aside to be with children, but not that. So when I'm there, I'm 100%, and what's good! Being a mother really taught me to love being myself, to love being alone, or with others but without my family.
I did not think I would write as much in opening this story, and I will stop there, even though I have the impression that I could still fill three pages on what it brought to my marriage, my professional life, my my friendly relations, to my perception of the world.
I hope I have managed to show you a look more corresponding to the expectations of society, it's true, but real. I hope I have not been too proselyte on motherhood and I prefer to say it again: it is about my experience, which is not meant to be universal. I just needed to express it.

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